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Summer · Small budget
Build and test a kite
Make a simple kite together and try it out in a suitable open space.
GET MOVING
Active dates
A little movement can make conversation easier.
Make the most of it.
Choose an activity that suits the group's pace and make it clear whether experience is needed. A relaxed route or a playful challenge is often more accessible than aiming for an achievement right away.
- Ask what pace and distance everyone feels comfortable with.
- Check whether special shoes, equipment or reservations are needed.
- Allow time afterwards to unwind and talk about the experience.
18 ideas to choose from.
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Summer · Small budget
Pétanque in the park
Bring a set of balls and play a relaxed game in a suitable spot.
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All year round · Small budget
Table tennis rally
Find a table and try to keep a rally going for twenty shots together.
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All year · Free
Musical statues without eliminations
Take turns stopping the music and come up with a new pose each time.
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All year round · An outing
First time bouldering
Try three beginner routes together at a bouldering gym.
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All year round · Small budget
Badminton without keeping score
Rent a court or play outside and try keeping the shuttlecock in the air together.
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Summer · An outing
Minigolf with your own rules
Play a round of minigolf and each choose one hole to try again.
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All year round · An outing
Bowling with a twist
Play a short round of bowling and add a playful challenge to each turn.
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All year round · An outing
A swim and a chat afterwards
Swim a few lengths together, then take a long break with a drink.
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Winter · An outing
Ice skating and warming up
Take a leisurely lap around an ice rink, then warm up together.
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Summer · An outing
Trying roller skating
Rent roller skates or inline skates and practise a few safe laps together.
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All year round · An outing
Dance floor for beginners
Visit an open beginners' evening and try one new rhythm together.
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Summer · Free
Free throws for two
Find a public basketball court and try twenty gentle shots together.
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Summer · Free
Beach volleyball without a tournament
Play a short round on a sand court where everyone gets to touch the ball.
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Summer · An outing
A treetop adventure at your own height
Choose a treetop adventure course that feels comfortable for you both.
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All year round · An outing
Archery for beginners
Take a guided introductory lesson together and compare what you learned.
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